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Intimacy MetricsRelationship science, made personal
Understand your relationship health in minutes.
Measure emotional connection, communication, physical intimacy, psychological safety, and lifestyle stress, then turn the results into clear insights and practical actions.
The concept
We track our sleep, our steps, our spending. Rarely the relationship that shapes all of it.
Intimacy Metrics gives partners a shared language for something that usually stays unspoken. A short, science-based assessment turns how you feel into your Intimacy Health Index (IHI), a single score built from five pillars of connection.
It is not a judgement and not a test you can fail. It is a mirror: a calm, private way to notice patterns early, understand each other's perspective, and choose one small action that helps. You do not need to be married or living together. If you are in a relationship, this is for you.
Problems grow quietly
Most people wait years before addressing what is not working. Small drifts become distance.
Two people, two views
Partners often see the same relationship differently. That gap is where the real insight lives.
Insight needs action
A score alone changes nothing. Each result comes with one practical step to try this week.
Every relationship has seasons.
We offer a safe, non-judgmental space built on relationship science. Whether you are thriving, drifting or rebuilding, the aim is the same: to see clearly and grow together.
Partners reflect separately and privately. We translate shared experiences into data-backed perspectives, uncover key patterns, and generate personalised Insight Reports.
What we measure
Five pillars. One index.
Emotional
Closeness, warmth and feeling safe with each other.
Communication
How you talk, listen and repair after conflict.
Physical
Sexual satisfaction, who initiates, and everyday touch.
Psychological
Trust, security and being truly seen.
Lifestyle
Work, money, family and the stress you carry home.
Inside the app
Your perspective, then theirs.
Start solo with your own IHI and pillar scores. When you are ready, invite your partner. Each of you answers privately, and the Partner Radar shows where you meet and where you differ.
Features
Small habits. Real change.
Daily Vibe Check
A two-second emoji check-in that keeps your emotional pillar current, without effort.
Relationship Weather
A 7-day outlook that flags rising stress early and suggests a calm moment to reconnect.
Partner Bridge
Invite your partner with one link. The Partner Radar shows where your views align or diverge.
Conflict Simulator
Practise hard conversations with an AI coach that gives gentle, real-time feedback on phrasing.
Growth Cohorts
Join anonymous 30-day challenges with other partners. Earn streaks and milestones together.
Curated Date Nights
Date night ideas and care packages, matched to the pillar that needs the most love right now.
Intimacy Quest
A board game for two. Roll the dice, read a prompt out loud and talk about what comes up.
Annual Growth Film
A year of growth, challenges overcome and milestones, captured in one personal story.
How it works
Four small steps. One clear picture.
Get started
Download the app or log in on the web. Nothing to set up, no credit card.
Answer the surveys
A short survey first, then deeper ones as you go. Private, and answered separately.
Get your score
Your Intimacy Health Index and five pillar scores, with what they actually mean.
Daily nudges
Small prompts, check-ins and one suggested action to keep you growing together.